We often think, relate and say ‘My Life’. But is it really ours or written and directed by someone and we are just mere players?? No one’s life go the way they think/dream/plan. When we don’t have a control over the past and totally unaware of what will happen in future, then if we still think that the life we are leading is ours then it’s either our blissful ignorance or a certain innocence.
As someone said, life is like a play, perfectly orchestrated by some unknown power and we just play our part. We don’t have control over the people that come into our lives, the part they play, the influence they make and the impression they leave when they finally leave you either high and dry or just wanting for more. Some come into your life a breeze, some like a storm, some to stay forever and some come just to leave. None of these again in your control. Nevertheless, with every such entry and exit, you discover and rediscover yourself so much that even a meticulous introspection fail to do.
Some relationships beg for commitment. Someway down the line, it ceases to be about just sharing small things that make you smile but turn into more serious bonding. Your heart starts looking out for every opportunity to be together and share everything. It gets hard to just stand aside and quietly watch life takes its own decision. Like never before, you want to take control of your life and own it. But when you get defeated again at life’s hand, when the delusion wears off, when reality hits hard, you realize that the colorful cocoon you lived in so far has been all imaginary and Life would, as always, be the final triumphant winner, taking its own defined course and you are just another shadow tagging along…
